God's Wisdom

GOD'S WISDOM

October 17, 20254 min read

🕊 Discernment That Brings Peace: How to Make God-Guided Choices

Have you ever felt stuck overthinking a decision, worrying about whether you’ll make the “right” choice? I know I have. I run into little situations every single day, whether it’s how to respond to a frustrating text, how to spend my time, or what to say yes (or no) to. It can feel overwhelming when you don’t know the right path forward.

That’s where discernment changes everything.

When guided by God’s wisdom, your choices lead to peace, clarity, and alignment with His plan. When we rely on our own judgment, we often end up with confusion, conflict, or regret.


💡 Why Discernment Brings Peace

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Discernment isn’t about having perfect judgment; it’s about letting God’s Word and Spirit guide you instead of relying on your own emotions or limited perspective.

When I take time to pray, read scripture, and seek God’s direction, my anxiety goes down. I stop spinning in circles wondering if I’m doing the right thing, because I know I’ve brought it to Him first.

“The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:7

That peace comes from knowing you are walking in step with Him, not guessing what He might want from you. The Bible gives us a steady foundation for decision-making, so we’re not tossed back and forth by emotions, culture, or fear of missing out.


🛠 How I Practice Discernment in Everyday Life

Here’s what this looks like for me on a regular day:

  1. 📖 I Open My Bible First
    Romans 12:2 reminds me to be transformed by renewing my mind. I look up verses that speak to what I’m facing sometimes with my Bible app or even a quick online search like “Bible verse about patience” or “Bible verse about anger.”

  2. 🙏 I Pray About It
    I ask God to help me see the situation the way He does. James 1:5 says if we lack wisdom, we can ask and God will give it generously, that’s a promise I hold onto.

  3. 💬 I Seek Godly Input
    If I still feel unsure, I may reach out to a trusted Christian friend and ask what verses they recommend or how they would approach the situation biblically.

  4. 🖊 I Write It Down
    I keep a page in my journal for “Decisions I’m Bringing Before God.” Writing down my prayers, the verses I find, and the way God leads me helps me feel grounded and reminds me later of His faithfulness.

  5. 🕊 I Wait for Peace Before Acting
    When I have that quiet confidence that my choice aligns with Scripture, I move forward, and my anxiety drops because I’m no longer wondering if I’m missing God’s will.


Calming Tip of the Day

🌱 Calming Tip of the Day

Start a Discernment Journal
Use a simple notebook or my free printable journal page to write down:

  • The situation you’re facing

  • The verses God shows you

  • The action you believe He’s leading you to take

This habit helps you see God’s faithfulness over time, and it brings so much peace knowing you’re making decisions with Him, not apart from Him.


📜 Key Bible Verses for Discernment

Here are some scriptures I keep close when I need clarity:

  • Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind so you can discern God’s will.

  • Philippians 1:9-10 – Pray for love, knowledge, and discernment so you can approve what is excellent.

  • Hebrews 5:14 – Mature believers train their discernment to distinguish good from evil.

  • 1 John 4:1 – Test the spirits to see whether they are from God.

  • James 1:5 – Ask God for wisdom and He will give it generously.

  • Hebrews 4:12 – God’s Word discerns the thoughts and intentions of the heart.


💌 Free Resource to Help You Start

Free Journal Printable

I’ve created a Journal Page just for this topic. Use it as your space to pray through decisions and record how God is leading you.

[👉 Download Your Free Journal Page Here]


💕 Encouragement for Your Heart

Remember, you don’t have to live weighed down by fear of making the wrong choice. Discernment is a skill you grow into not something you either “have” or “don’t.”

Start small: pray, open your Bible, write down what God is showing you, and take one faithful step. Over time, you’ll notice that peace comes faster, and your confidence grows.

God’s peace is not something you have to earn it’s His gift to you. And when you learn to trust His leading, you’ll find yourself walking lighter, calmer, and more confident in every choice.


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Kristi is the heart behind Fair Lamb Inspired-The Inspired Dwelling, where she encourages Christian women facing anxiety and overwhelm to draw near to God. Through journal devotionals, printables, and peaceful home inspiration, she helps women create faith-filled spaces that foster trust in Him.

Kristi FairLamb

Kristi is the heart behind Fair Lamb Inspired-The Inspired Dwelling, where she encourages Christian women facing anxiety and overwhelm to draw near to God. Through journal devotionals, printables, and peaceful home inspiration, she helps women create faith-filled spaces that foster trust in Him.

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