OVERTHINKING EVERY DECISION?

OVERTHINKING EVERY DECISION?

August 03, 20254 min read

How to Let Go and Trust God’s Lead

Have you ever felt so mentally tangled that even prayer feels hard?
Like you can’t quiet your thoughts long enough to hear God… and the longer you sit with a decision, the more anxious you feel? You're not alone.

Overthinking is one of the most subtle, overwhelming forms of anxiety—because it feels like productivity, but actually steals your peace. And for Christian women who want to follow God’s will? It’s especially hard.
What if you miss His plan? What if you mess up?

Let’s breathe for a moment—and go to God together.


💭 When Your Mind Won’t Settle Down

Overthinking doesn’t come from a lack of faith—it often comes from the pressure to get it “right.” You want to do what God wants. But when your heart is exhausted and your brain is spinning, even praying clearly can feel impossible.

“In the same way the Spirit helps us in our weakness.
We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.”
—Romans 8:26 (NIV)

That verse is for you.
When you’re too overwhelmed to find words, the Holy Spirit
steps in. He carries your sighs, your confusion, your silence—and brings them before the Father.


📖 What the Bible Says About Overthinking

Let’s be clear: the Bible doesn’t use the word overthinking, but it speaks to it over and over.

Here are three scriptures that reveal what’s really happening when your mind can’t rest:

  1. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding...”
    —Proverbs 3:5–6
    → Overthinking often leans on
    our logic. God invites you to lean on Him instead.

  2. “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
    —1 Peter 5:7
    → Your anxiety doesn’t disqualify you from being heard by God—it draws His care.

  3. “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
    —Isaiah 26:3
    → Peace isn’t found in certainty. It’s found in
    trust.


📝 Journal Your Way to Clarity

When your thoughts are spiraling, journaling gives them a place to go. Use the Pray • Read • Reflect method to slow down and sort through the fog. Here’s a gentle path forward:

1. Scripture I Read Today:

Choose a verse above (or another you’re drawn to) and write it out slowly.

2. What God is Showing Me:

What part of this verse stands out? Does it bring conviction, peace, or hope?

3. How I Want to Respond:

What decision or worry can I release to God today? What does trusting Him look like?

4. Journal Prompt for Reflection:

“What decision am I holding too tightly? What would it look like to release it fully into God’s hands?”

5. My Prayer:

You don’t need perfect words. Write what you can, and let the Holy Spirit intercede where words run out.


🖨️ Use the Printables to Guide You

You don’t have to face this swirl of thoughts alone. Inside the Start With God printable set and this month’s journal prompt pack, you’ll find:

  • Scriptures for clarity and peace

  • Guided journal prompts to help you process

  • A peaceful, reusable journal page layout

👉 Get the printable journal tools here
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Or browse all your free download options


💗 A Prayer for the Overthinking Woman

Lord, You see how tangled my thoughts have become.
I want to trust You, but my fears are loud.
Help me release the pressure to figure it all out on my own.
Remind me that Your Spirit intercedes for me, even when I don’t know what to pray.
I choose today to rest in Your wisdom, not mine.
Please guide my steps—and quiet my heart.
In Jesus’ name, amen.


✨ Calming Tip of the Day

Place a small plant or fresh flowers near your workspace — greenery helps slow your thoughts and lift your mood.


🕊️ Final Thought: His Peace Is Bigger Than Your Pressure

You weren’t created to carry the weight of every decision.
You were created to walk with the God who already knows the outcome.
One small surrender at a time, your mind can find peace again.

Use your time with God today. Journal, pray, and sit in His presence.

You’re not failing. You’re being led.

Kristi is the heart behind Fair Lamb Inspired-The Inspired Dwelling, where she encourages Christian women facing anxiety and overwhelm to draw near to God. Through journal devotionals, printables, and peaceful home inspiration, she helps women create faith-filled spaces that foster trust in Him.

Kristi FairLamb

Kristi is the heart behind Fair Lamb Inspired-The Inspired Dwelling, where she encourages Christian women facing anxiety and overwhelm to draw near to God. Through journal devotionals, printables, and peaceful home inspiration, she helps women create faith-filled spaces that foster trust in Him.

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